Monday, April 20, 2009

Have you ever gotten whipped as a child?

With what? A belt, paddle, tree branch, twitch, fly swatter, bare hands, fists, shoes, (unspecified)______?





I got whipped with all of that when I was a kid. Now I notice that kids beat their parents up %26amp; think it%26#039;s funny. I used to be terrorized by getting whippings. Now you see a 3-yr. old kid getting whipped %26amp; they laugh %26amp; then the parents get CPS called on them. I%26#039;m so afraid to have kids because of how much trouble it%26#039;s easy to get into now. Things that were right back in the day are wrong now. %26amp; nowadays I see how parents call their kids bitches %26amp; hoes. It%26#039;s ridiculous!

Have you ever gotten whipped as a child?
I got beat with a belt (the buckle, not the strap), a shoe, a tree branch, got punched in the face, beer bottles thrown at me, choked, spit on, had a gun held to my head...shall I keep going? And I turned out jusssst fiiiiine. Yes, just fine.





I%26#039;m not against a good a ss whooping (not beatings like I got as a kid) because I think snot nosed little punks deserve it. I dare my kids to call the cops when I lay the smack down on them. You want to call 911 because I slapped your rear end? Go ahead. Do it. I%26#039;m still going to whoop your a ss though.
Reply:Yeah it is rediculous. I just got spanked when I was a kid. No whippings, but my parents threatened to. Now it seems like you can%26#039;t even ground your kid without child services getting on your ***. I feel that way, and I don%26#039;t even have kids yet. I can%26#039;t imagine how it will be when I do. It won%26#039;t keep me from wanting to have them though. Actually, my wife will have them, I%26#039;ll just help raise them. It%26#039;s not really physically possible for me to, ah, you know what I mean.
Reply:I got whipped with whatever was in the reach of my parents....
Reply:U forgot extension cords and sometimes my parents were lazy and just threw the phone, shoes or the remote at me
Reply:i don%26#039;t have any kids --- i%26#039;m so happy i don%26#039;t have any kids


i got hit a lot by my parents when i was a kid


i don%26#039;t know what it all means


it just seems to me that when you have a kid you got to become a parent---and too many people with kids don%26#039;t want to be parents


that%26#039;s why i don%26#039;t have any kids---i don%26#039;t know what the s-hell to do with my own life
Reply:Yes. I%26#039;ve been whipped by the belt of my Dad.
Reply:yes with a belt and anything else that was around
Reply:Yes, lots of times. With belts, switches, hands, brushes, combs, extension cords.
Reply:yeah, kids today have the government giving rights and not the parents. Its as if once the kid is born you must raise them but under what the goverment feels is best for the child not the parents
Reply:Seriously, I have been whipped w/ everything you mentioned. We even had to go outside and get the branch, so we would try to pick a flimsy one.





PS. I forgot about the extension cords...those hurt the most.
Reply:At most, I was chased around the house and my mum would smack my butt. Other than that, it was my ears that practically bled, hearing my mother nag.





My dad%26#039;s presence was already scary enough for me. Hahah XD
Reply:Oh yes I got good spanking , a bamboo stick when I was out of line. My hands got smack if I touched things that is not mine. If I answered my elders is a disrespectfull tone I got good spanking. I don%26#039;t regret the whipped,now that I am an adult I am high moral person. My late husband said that my parents raised me very well .
Reply:I was whipped like a red headed step child. You name it I got hit with it and I turned out alright.
Reply:yeah it was bare hands but I always laughed at it. Parents don%26#039;t know how to treat their kids and america won%26#039;t let them properly discipline their kids either.
Reply:I got whipped with a billiard stick on my calf and the bruise lasted for more than 3 years. I couldn%26#039;t wear short pants in summer...
Reply:yes and with a belt, it hurt!
Reply:wtf


ive never been hit or whipped or anything... but i respected my parents and never called them anything bad like that!





discipline doesnt have to be physical.. maybe the kids in my family are just extraordinary compared to normal kids
Reply:only whipped cream lol





sorry i know this is probly a serious question
Reply:All the above plus skipping ropes, frying pans and pot lids. My parents were freaks!
Reply:Spare the rod and spoil the child....You can whip a child without being cruel.............Prison is time out for adults.......Nuf Said
Reply:A leather belt %26amp; one of those hard (not flimsy) wire coat hangers was my mamas weapon of choice.
Reply:I got spanking when I was a child with belts, flip flops, fly swatters and bare hands. I really needed motst of them and I also think that many children are disrespectful. I spank my children with my hand and I don%26#039;t care who knows. I dare someone to call cps on me. I never hurt them but I have taught them to respect me and do what i tell them too.
Reply:I got bare butt spankings


and my grandmother, who I stayed with a few days a week, would us a fly swatter.
Reply:My mom always had a hot wheels race car track....can you say %26quot;STING!!!%26quot;? I didnt get spanked often simply b/c I rarely did anything wrong just b/c I didnt want to disappoint my parents. I dont spank my kids, and my kids dont beat me up nor are they disrespectful to me or anyone else for that matter. That%26#039;s because I am raising them right, if you raise your kids right, you dont have to worry about CPS. I%26#039;m not saying it is wrong or right to spank kids...it%26#039;s what works best for you and your family...I%26#039;m just saying that it is possible to raise good kids without spanking them.
Reply:I was never whipped. I had/have unlimited respect for my parents. They taught me right from wrong, without hitting me.





I have a five year old, he%26#039;s wonderful. He will never get hit by me or his father... he%26#039;s respectful, he%26#039;s intelligent, and he is being taught right from wrong.





I think it takes more effort to teach your children then it does to whip them.





I think hitting kids is abuse whether you call it discipline or not, it%26#039;s abuse. If a man hits his wife, it%26#039;s not discipline it%26#039;s abuse. If I hit you, it%26#039;s not discipline it%26#039;s abuse. Period.





Don%26#039;t hit your kids, it%26#039;s just so wrong on so many levels.
Reply:That%26#039;s what%26#039;s wrong with today%26#039;s kids. My folks tore my butt up everytime I did wrong. But they never hit me in anger. Mom was the worse with her %26quot;switches%26quot; and she always went for the legs (ouch). But I deserved every one of my %26quot;lessons%26quot; and I%26#039;m grateful to this day for each one I got.
Reply:My parents did not beat me up savagely or anything but I was punished every now and the when I really went over the edge. I don%26#039;t think I would agree many of the times since I wasn%26#039;t such a bad child, every people that met me as a child will tell you that, in fact, they told my parents that. Still I have sisters and there were problems, we use to quarrel over almost anything and being the only boy I would get beat up, once I even had my face on a bucket for few seconds several times for arguing with my sister. Thing is, we would yell really loud and my mother just hated neighbours to listen to our insults out loud. I would never do anthing the sort to my children, if I ever have them that is. Anyway, that only happened once I I reckon we were driving my mother crazy, still I shouldn%26#039;t have been doing that since I was trying to make my sister understand that our parrot was not a toy.


My parents use their hands and legs to hit me, but generally I didn%26#039;t feel much pain since I was a chubby child, many times they would beat me harder because I would laugh for not feeling almost anything. Oh, I remember that one they used broom or something like that.



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